So I have been thinking for awhile now that I want to start a blog. Something I can do to get thoughts out of my head that other people can read for inspiration, guidance, a feeling of mutual sorrows or happiness, the sake of killing time...whatever. If people read it then great, if they don't then I will still enjoy writing. If they want to comment or ask questions or seek advise...even better! It took me about .037 seconds to think of my theme, Love. Love to me is the single most important thing on the planet and it is ALWAYS on my mind. Love for friends, love for family, love for a special someone, and especially love for oneself. My roommate and I joke that I am a "Modern Day Aphrodite" or "Aphrodite's Reincarnation". But the more I think of it the more I agree with it. I wish I could help the whole world fall in love and find peace and happiness within love. That is perhaps why I spoil those I care about with love because it is the greatest gift anyone could ever give to me.
This blog will not be me talking about my current or past relationships....it is just simply my thoughts on certain situations of love. Now that is not to say that I won't draw from my relationships from time to time or use examples from other peoples relationships (names not used)
So lets get started shall we?...
I was at work today cleaning some windows and I began to sing to myself to distract from the daunting task that lay ahead of me. "Jar of Hearts" was stuck in my head and I got to the lyric, "I've learned to live half a life...". It got me thinking about heartbreak and the differences that people feel when they face it. I know exactly what she means when she says that. When you fall in love with someone- especially when you are married to them your hearts and souls become one. You may have two separate lives but you also have one life together. When that falls apart and the two souls separate I think that your soul is left as a half because your other half is no longer there. Both souls have learned to live off of each other and with each other. Fragile as they may be, souls are very powerful and very strong. They have a power beyond that of mere flesh...they have the ability to regenerate even after the deepest of wounds. A soul can grow again and learn to live on its own until one day it finds another to intertwine with. So the next time you are broken hearted and you think you cannot go on without this special person, just know that you will be ok no matter how impossible or long the journey in front of you seems. Being that I am a woman who has recently finalized her divorce I speak from experience. And I can tell you that I know my journey isn't over but I have definitely come to the most pleasant part of the trail. I am at peace with the death of the marriage and I am much stronger and more secure. I have found someone new and I am so thankful everyday that I have found someone who can bring a smile to my face and joy to my heart.
I would like to dedicate my 1st official blog to my boyfriend Rich Hills. You are absolutely amazing babe. You deserve the best and nothing less. This one is for you. XOXOXO
*Peace, Love, & Food*
This blog will not be me talking about my current or past relationships....it is just simply my thoughts on certain situations of love. Now that is not to say that I won't draw from my relationships from time to time or use examples from other peoples relationships (names not used)
So lets get started shall we?...
I was at work today cleaning some windows and I began to sing to myself to distract from the daunting task that lay ahead of me. "Jar of Hearts" was stuck in my head and I got to the lyric, "I've learned to live half a life...". It got me thinking about heartbreak and the differences that people feel when they face it. I know exactly what she means when she says that. When you fall in love with someone- especially when you are married to them your hearts and souls become one. You may have two separate lives but you also have one life together. When that falls apart and the two souls separate I think that your soul is left as a half because your other half is no longer there. Both souls have learned to live off of each other and with each other. Fragile as they may be, souls are very powerful and very strong. They have a power beyond that of mere flesh...they have the ability to regenerate even after the deepest of wounds. A soul can grow again and learn to live on its own until one day it finds another to intertwine with. So the next time you are broken hearted and you think you cannot go on without this special person, just know that you will be ok no matter how impossible or long the journey in front of you seems. Being that I am a woman who has recently finalized her divorce I speak from experience. And I can tell you that I know my journey isn't over but I have definitely come to the most pleasant part of the trail. I am at peace with the death of the marriage and I am much stronger and more secure. I have found someone new and I am so thankful everyday that I have found someone who can bring a smile to my face and joy to my heart.
I would like to dedicate my 1st official blog to my boyfriend Rich Hills. You are absolutely amazing babe. You deserve the best and nothing less. This one is for you. XOXOXO
*Peace, Love, & Food*
Since this post Rich and I have decided to be friends. I still believe he is an amazing person and he still holds a special place in my heart.
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ReplyDeleteSince this post Rich and I have decided to be friends. I still believe he is an amazing person and he still holds a special place in my heart.
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