Hey guys I got my first request for advice. Like I said before I will not reveal names and everything will be confidential.
Reader says,
"Alright, thing is. I am little socially awkward and I have a tendency to sabotage promising situations such as poteitially this one. How do I avoid doing that?
I don't really let people close to me very often."
I believe you need to figure out what people find awkward about you. Then instead of changing it you should embrace it! If you want people to really love you for who you are then changing is not the answer. Be yourself-enhanced. For example I am loud spoken and very strange at times. I like to sing and dance even when no music is playing and people are staring. I've come to learn that being embarrassed about it gives people their ammunition to disapprove but when flaws are embraced they become appreciated and present a unique-ness about oneself that others are actually attracted to. There is a reason the girl always falls for the bad boy...it is the "I don't care" attitude.
Now if certain people can't accept your socially awkwardness then they probably aren't the type of people you should have in your life, nor are they the type of people you should spend your love on. So I guess what I am trying to say is don't avoid it because if you try to avoid it you are denying people the chance to know who you really are and love you for who you really are.
Remember...true love, no matter who it comes from, loves the whole package entirely, the box, the contents, the broken pieces, the shiny pieces...all of it. Anything less is a dangerous recipe for heartbreak. This is best shown in the example of parents and their love for their children. A parent will love their child no matter what, that is why it is an ultimate bond. People should look for a similar love from their significant others and the friends they keep.
Hope I helped!
*Peace, Love, & Food*
Reader says,
"Alright, thing is. I am little socially awkward and I have a tendency to sabotage promising situations such as poteitially this one. How do I avoid doing that?
I don't really let people close to me very often."
I believe you need to figure out what people find awkward about you. Then instead of changing it you should embrace it! If you want people to really love you for who you are then changing is not the answer. Be yourself-enhanced. For example I am loud spoken and very strange at times. I like to sing and dance even when no music is playing and people are staring. I've come to learn that being embarrassed about it gives people their ammunition to disapprove but when flaws are embraced they become appreciated and present a unique-ness about oneself that others are actually attracted to. There is a reason the girl always falls for the bad boy...it is the "I don't care" attitude.
Now if certain people can't accept your socially awkwardness then they probably aren't the type of people you should have in your life, nor are they the type of people you should spend your love on. So I guess what I am trying to say is don't avoid it because if you try to avoid it you are denying people the chance to know who you really are and love you for who you really are.
Remember...true love, no matter who it comes from, loves the whole package entirely, the box, the contents, the broken pieces, the shiny pieces...all of it. Anything less is a dangerous recipe for heartbreak. This is best shown in the example of parents and their love for their children. A parent will love their child no matter what, that is why it is an ultimate bond. People should look for a similar love from their significant others and the friends they keep.
Hope I helped!
*Peace, Love, & Food*
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